Become the best version of yourself
Whatever is the walk of your life. Don’t try just be the best version without the I can’t, or whatever words that will keep you from being the best you. As you speak the I can’ts and or whatever forward blocking word you can think, think about how powerful those words are. Because you’re living in the moment where your actions are powered by your words. So when you san I can and you do, and your do will become something to enhance your wants and needs.
So being the best version of you stems from what your life experiences are good and bad. You learn from all elements as well as from others.
Don’t be needy or seem like a needy person, or needy all the time because that will push away potential growth and network.