HINDSIGHT #116 The Time Line, Part one
3 min readApr 27, 2020
2010 - Candi Finds Dejean on Facebook, inception of filming.
- Dejean breaks up with a crazy, stalking, over the top ultra insecure chick on New Year’s going into 11.
2011 — filming begins
- Candi visits Dejean in Cali. Present surprise. Awesome.
- Dejean in various explicit social groups
- Role playing games in groups, some lead to DM’s
- Going through a whirlwind of issues via past relationships trying to mend old wounds peaceful to keep his youngest child close, since this 2nd youngest child mother was wreckless with their child relationship. He didn’t want to go through anymore.
- Moved to New Orleans during indifference which proves to be a grand mistake. Grand being everything happen for a reason.
- Filming living in motel with the director.
- DeJean get’s to know his youngest son Desmundo.
- Candi visits Dejean in Nola.
- Dejean liking Candi a lot
- They made it official, A relationship
- Still filming, moved from motel to townhouse
- Candi snoops through Dejean’s laptop and finds things she shouldn’t even see ever. The role playing stuff.
- Candi takes role playing serious not listening to Dejean.
- Film director leaves for a few weeks
2012
- Dejean had his pro debut and robbed of glory.
- Candi think baby mama #3 and Dejean are trying to get together. (Wrong) wasn’t like that though it did seem that way.
- Dejean still in the groups, Dejean adds Candi to a group and she admits to getting it shutdown by reporting it.
- Dejean started another group.
- Dejean enjoying time with his son Desmundo.
- Candi feels some type of way about Dejean’s new group.
- Candi finds more role playing messages via inbox. Taking it series.
- A couple conversations Candi found were harmless flirting. Yet it makes her uncomfortable. So no more flirting. Yet saying hun or being called hun, or another pet names then to her it must be more to it. NO it’s not.
2013
- Candi stay misunderstanding and paints dark picture about Dejean. On going issues about Dejean online conversations with female friends insist.
- Dejean gets a job at a pool club.
- Dejean had an old non malicious vengeful game vs an ex that seem to get misconstrued and Candi holds that over his head to present time.
2014
- Film screens. Its beautiful because Dejean and Candi with his youngest son being on the red carpet. It felt great to go through the whole world premier process.
- Candi finds Dejean’s oldest son.
- This when Dejean was moving forward.
- Dejean and Candi hanging out together more.
- Dejean gets an extra role in boxing movie.
- Dejean and Candi spending quality time.
2015
- Dejean gets custody of his 2nd oldest son Deshane.
- Drama by Deshane lowkey manipulating situations between Candi and his mother
- Deshane and Desmundo bonds well.
- Dejean’s oldest son, Tyrlando dies mysteriously, turns out to be a murder cover up by the state.
- Dejean has a falling out with his sister and daughter Alyiah.
- Candi is super supportive through the death of Tylando.
- Deshane acts up in Jr high school.
2016
- Candi is making things ends meet, working two to three jobs for her family and Dejean.
- Dejean gets a major audition and role in a movie.
- Dejean did some other small roles.
- Dejean bombed (meaning sucked bad) an audition with NCIS New Orleans.
- Dejean fires his agent and brings on a new Manager an old friend. (Mistake)
- Dejean struggles to get work
- Candi come visit and they have good times.
- Candi doesn’t like certain online things Dejean posts or how he say if it third person may relate to a situation involving them.
TO BE CONTINUED…